Ep 27 | Making Room for the New You (A Real Talk on Life Transitions)

Today we're diving into something real and raw - how to make room for the new you when life's throwing some major changes your way.

Let me tell you, I'm right in the thick of it myself, and I want to share my journey with you. Because let's face it, change can be scary, but it's also where the magic happens.

The Comfort Zone Trap

For the past couple of years, I've been living in what I thought was my dream scenario. A beautiful historic house, picking up my daughter from school every day at 3, and generally living a life that felt... comfortable.

But here's the truth - I realized that comfort was actually holding me back. It was like a cozy blanket that was making it way too easy to hit the snooze button on my bigger dreams and ambitions.

Quick Reality Check:

• Comfort feels good, but it doesn't help you grow

• Your gut instinct might be telling you to play it safe - challenge that!

• Ask yourself: "Am I truly fulfilled, or just comfortable?"

Facing the Fear of Change

Now, I'm staring down some massive changes. We're thinking about moving, potentially turning my 1.5 million dollar property into a commercial space, and I've got some other big (and slightly terrifying) goals on the horizon.

Let me be real with you - I'm scared. Starting a new venture with a 1.5 million dollar property? That's a whole new level of responsibility and risk. But you know what? That fear is also excitement in disguise.

How to Deal With the Scary Stuff:

• Acknowledge your fears - they're normal!

• Remind yourself of past challenges you've overcome

• Focus on the potential rewards, not just the risks

The Cost of Leveling Up

There's this quote that hit me hard recently: "Your new life is going to cost you your old one." Ouch, right? But it's so true. To make room for this new version of myself, I'm having to let go of some things I love.

Maybe I won't be able to pick up my daughter every day at 3. Maybe we'll need to downsize our living situation to fund these new ventures. It's not easy, but I'm realizing that holding onto everything from my old life might be keeping me from growing into the person I want to become.

Making Tough Choices:

• Identify what truly matters to you long-term

• Be willing to make short-term sacrifices for long-term gains

• Remember: change doesn't mean losing everything - it's about evolution

Rediscovering My Hustle

I've always been good at being uncomfortable, at trying scary things and jumping into the unknown. Somewhere along the way - maybe it was turning 40, maybe it was having kids - I stepped back from that. I got comfortable.

But that fire? It's still there. And it's time to ignite those flames again.

Rekindling Your Drive:

• Remind yourself of past successes and how good it felt to achieve them

• Set ambitious goals that excite and scare you a little

• Surround yourself with people who inspire and challenge you

Creating Boundaries for Growth

One of the hardest parts of this transition? Realizing that I might need to step back from some relationships or commitments that don't align with my new goals. It's not about cutting people out forever, but about creating space for growth.

This means learning to say "no" without a laundry list of excuses. It means prioritizing self-care and personal development, even when it feels a little selfish.

Setting Healthy Boundaries:

• Practice saying "no" without explanation

• Audit your commitments - do they align with your goals?

• Remember: taking care of yourself isn't selfish, it's necessary

Enjoying the Journey

I don't have it all figured out. I'm learning as I go, just like you. But I'm committed to this journey of growth and change, even when it's uncomfortable.

I'm ready to work those long hours, to travel more, to push myself in ways I haven't in years. Because I know that on the other side of this discomfort is a version of myself - and a life - that I'm really excited about.

Moving Forward:

• Embrace the uncertainty - it's where growth happens

• Celebrate small wins along the way

• Stay connected with your 'why' - what's driving this change?

So, my beautiful people, I want to hear from you. How are you making room for the new you? What changes are you facing, and how are you navigating them? Let's grow together, support each other, and create the lives we really want.

Remember, the only way to get to where you want to be is to make room for it. It might be scary, it might be uncomfortable, but I promise you - it's worth it.